ASMR Mimics Real Intimacy

I’ve noticed a trend within the ASMR community when it comes to taking advantage of men and their want of a feminine affectionate women. Essentially ASMR is taking advantage of the feeling you get during intimacy whether romantic or nature based. In it’s raw form the concept has solely been developed as a side effect of our broken society where people don’t show each other compassion unless they are getting paid for it.
 
One women turns herself into the girlfriend of thousands of men, and these men must be starving for any type of affection to resort to internet ASMR. Whether it be natural or romantic, the reality is I get the same feelings when sitting at the beach. When a cute girl is whispering in your ear or kissing your neck. These are the real tingles and emotions that ASMR pretends to intimate. The reality is though that ASMR is just another band aid on the real issue.
 
People in our society, especially men, are completely lacking in receiving any type of affection or empathy. Between feminism and evolution, the modern man is left as nothing more than a disposable utility for women and society; left with ASMR or sex dolls as their only option for any type of affection. These girls don’t act like that in a relationship but throw them a few dollars and they will act feminine and caring.
 
Now, not all ASMR people are sexual but the concept remains the same, the ASMR is mimicking natural real life good feelings. When I have the breeze tickling my ears on the beach it’s the same feeling. When the cool morning air hits my face and the sunshine beams down on my head it’s the same feeling. By engaging in ASMR you are essentially taking a prescription drug verse natural medicine or food. Instead of just going outside and enjoying life, instead of being intimate with others, people are choosing to use e-intimacy to fill the void.
 
Some will claim that they are simply relaxed by the ASMR but what they don’t realize is this stems from the want of affection. To want someone there to de-stress you when you get home from a bad day, a long day of work, essentially these women have turned them selves into everyone’s girlfriend. Pretending to rub your head and ears as they whisper in your ear. Pretending to care about your day and what happened. These are the things your wife and girlfriend are supposed to do but feminism has turned them into men while at the same time turning any feminine’ness into a paid commodity.
 
When we look at society, between MGTOW, ASMR, and all the other side movements that are quite similar in foundation, it’s easy to see how men have been turned into a disposable utility on every level and now even have to pay to simply receive some empathy or affection in anyway. It’s a clear indication that society itself is on the brink of mental collapse. Pretending that ASMR can replace real life intimacy and nature is living another lie. To pretend that some girl on twitch with her boobs out licking an ear mic is the same as having a real compassionate partner or sitting in the jungle or on the beach is just delusional. It reminds me of those self help tapes with ocean and bird sounds. People listen before bed as they try to get rid of the anxiety from the day never realizing that oceans and birds exist in real life; literally all around us and most of the plane is water. Even dumbass Darwin figured out there were a lot of different colored birds on an Island making noise.
 
Human beings love intimacy. We require it. Whether with another person, nature, or Jesus Christ himself we require love and intimacy. Replacing real life affection with ASMR only pulls you further down the technological new age delusion so many real people are tired of. Don’t be fooled in thinking that ASMR isn’t an intimacy illusion.
 

Why Men Chase Female Validation and Attention

Female validation can be an extremely positive and uplifting thing for a man when used in the correct context. A big hug from a loving grandma or mother can be amazing. However, the majority of the time I see women using it as bait to hook victims and begin to play with their emotions. Many women know how powerful their validation is and use it for their own benefit rather than for the man or boy.
 
This behavior is often times learned as a child. The young boy grows up with a mother who does exactly this. She uses her validation, time, and energy as cookies for the unsuspecting child. Abruptly cutting off this validation leaves the child in a state of confusion and terror as they try to grasp why their mother no longer gives them any attention. The mother is usually doing this to create an unhealthy dependency from the child onto her. Like locking down a victim for future infinite narcissistic supply.
 
If there are many children they will be used as pawn in this game of female validation. Like clock work the mother will rotate the children dealing out psychological trauma to each one as she builds her army of supply wagons. Young girls see their mother doing this to not only the children, but the husband and father as well. She starts to see how she can use her attention and validation to get what she wants rather than supporting her siblings and father. She begins having temper tantrums, pouting, and acting like a princess to get her way. This is all learned behavior.
 
The father has already been beaten down for the last 25 years so he is no match of defense for the children so the games continue. For years and years attention and female validation are used as a whipping stick for control and the mothers own personal need for attention and drama. Young boys are left in a psychological thunderstorm as they try to figure out why they feel the need to chase this validation. Wondering why their mom doesn’t actually give a shit about them at all. This all carries over into dating and relationships obviously, along with a mess of other psychological issues that can cause self destruction and rage without dealing with it personally.
 
Often times young men are trained to be wild dogs on the hunt for this validation. As boys, they are caught in the crossfire of their own moms hunt for narcissistic supply. They have been in so many situations where the love, validation, and attention was cut off without notice. A young boy left to wonder why his mother only loves him when it’s convenient or when it suites her needs. He begins chasing this validation. Trying harder and harder to get his mothers attention only to fall short.
 
Men find them selves chasing this same validation in the dating game. They try and try and it never seems good enough. They chase this validation wondering why their wife, girlfriend, or date doesn’t care about them at all. It’s the same cycle repeating itself. Men chase girl after girl trying to find this validation that never seems to reveal itself. Often times these same princesses carry out the same tricks your mother used creating an easy cycle of abuse.
 
They will lie, manipulate, monkey branch, and do anything they can to get you completely hooked on their validation and attention. Like they are the only cook in the world and you’d starve without them. This is their goal. To have you crawling back time after time for a small cookie. This leaves you hooked in their world. It leaves you chasing their dreams and desires. It robs you of your own personality, soul, and life as you chase this validation.
 
Looking at your own child hood and self reflecting on it can have an enormous impact on how you view dating and women in general. Seeing the games and tricks they use keeps it from effecting you as much as it could if you were still chasing that validation in full force. Break the cycle and start validating yourself through personal growth and hobbies. Don’t allow these women to carry out the same cycle of abuse your parents did, and start your own personal journey without needing their validation in any way.

The Battle of a Man’s Heart

I wrote an article a while back titled “We Were All Blue Pill at One Time” and it ties into this topic quite a bit. The reality is most of us have been in a bad relationship. Most of us have been in a terrible relationship. Let’s face it, most of us have been in a lot of bad relationships. Most of us have been in a lot of terrible relationships.
 
Personally my mother showed many characteristics of being a malignant narcissistic sociopath and this set me up to willingly date them unaware. I don’t know if I attracted them per sae, as I attracted a lot of girls growing up. Somehow they always managed to be the ones I was in a relationship with however. Not always, but a large percentage of the girls I dated turned out to be exactly like this. Even once I started learning about narcissism, sociopaths, jezebel personalities, delilah personalities, ect. when I was younger they still managed to trick me once in a while.
 
Many times I found myself feeling extremely depressed and unhappy with life when I was in these relationships. It didn’t happen overnight which is part of the trick. I would have seen it if it happened suddenly and without a well executed plan of attack. Often times it can take weeks, months, or even years to fully carry out their plan. Little by little, they start to whittle away at your foundation. At the same time they send out a psychological flank in one of your most vulnerable positions.
 
You wonder to yourself, how did this happen? I was just eating and drinking with my buddies, playing cards and enjoying some good fun when all of a sudden there was movement in the bushes. Little did we know there was something lurking, watching, waiting. We begin to worry, doubt, and fear what could be hiding in the bushes. Is a cute free range rabbit? I don’t think so. It’s too big. Suddenly it stops.
 
You look around and everything seems to be normal. Perhaps it was just the breeze you think. So you go back to having fun with your buddies. You are enjoying the freedom and liberty of life. The sunset is beautiful. The buzz starts to kick in from the beers. Another buddy comes back from the lake with some fish and another with a small boar he shot while taking a shit. You feel great, laughing inside, suddenly out of the corner of your eye you see several shadows dance across the tree line.
 
You look over and once again see nothing. This time you take no chances and send out a small team to recon and another to setup security just in case. Meanwhile you gaze through your binoculars as your spotter and long range shooter setup near by. All reports come back and it’s all clear. You see nothing and start to doubt your own leadership abilities. You wonder if you are starting to see things. You tell your team to come back and enjoy the rest of the night. You drink a few extra beers to calm the nerves and pass around a few jokes with the guys.
 
The sun has set, the moon is high in the sky, the forest is quiet, and the pond is still. All is peaceful on the top of the hill. A few guys are still playing cards while another is setting up his hammock. One’s passed out with a giant smile and a cigar still stuck to his lip. You can’t help but laugh and smack it out of his mouth.
 
This is when it happens. Those shadows become demons and the rustle of the bush turns into a full on assault. You scream not only for your platoon but also as a rally cry. You run for cover firing every chance you get. You see your platoon in total chaos as they run for their weapon dodging bullets and fire. You grab a grenade from your waste band, pull the pin, and throw it as far as you can as you take position and start cover fire.
 
The only thing racing through your mind is doubt and fear. You can’t believe you let your self and your men get caught sleeping. You question your leadership as you slap a new magazine in and chuck another grenade. This is when you see it. You see the flank charging in. With one last effort you grab the M240 Bravo and try to cover. You yell for your team to get down as you spin in rapid fire.
 
When the smoke clears there’s nothing left. Your hobbies, your dreams, your personality, it’s all gone. Your clip runs dry and all you here is click click click.
 
This is where I found myself many times during and after a relationship like this. Building your confidence back up can be extremely difficult. Getting yourself, your hobbies, your life back can be one of the hardest things ever imaginable. You look around at all the dead bodies and wonder how you could ever recover. You question who you even are anymore. Whether or not your personality is what it is or what it even is.
 
The only thing you can really do is bury the dead. As you start to walk away and realize everything that has occurred, your doubt becomes curiosity and your fear becomes depression. It’s a fuzzy feeling and quite hard to put words too, as your mind goes blank and your body pushes forward. You dust off old habits and hobbies that bring back some cognitive function. You feel the cool fall breeze biting your nipples as you go back for a sweatshirt before wondering to yourself how it all happened.
 
You stay up late reading internet articles like this one. Questioning your existence and what the fuck it is you’re doing. You start to realize you’re not alone and many men have fought this very battle. You’re filled with rage and joy while laying low as a survivor. You start to remember your wants and desires, your dreams. Your shown a mission and objective with an achievable goal.
 
This is where true growth comes from. Self reflection and honesty. You see your self for who you really are. What you really are. As it becomes obvious looking in the mirror. Don’t let yourself get stuck in the process, because we have a very short existence. Wasting your time bashing and hating might build your confidence but it won’t bring you to a place of consistent joy, you’ll be left sitting in the camp staring at your boy.
 
This is one area I truly struggle in, and that’s remaining humble. The ability to build confidence without hurting someone else can be difficult in this society. Especially when it’s so easy with no responsibility for your actions. You can personally see many times I have lost my humility from passion, emotion, or rage. It’s easy to do. Where our government plays the left and right paradigm pretending our votes have some sort of weight. Realizing it’s not true when they try to take your Ak-47 birthday cake.
 
The only way we get through this is with a well educated platoon. Where each member has a unique tool set to add value to the tune. Where we truly argue and debate as men, with no topic off the table with true ideas and opinions to validate. Staying inside the camp of death you can’t revitalize who you are. A place of rage and depression are your only way out, unless you take up a bad habit like meth.
 

Modern Day Women and Feminism

I’ve been doing a bit of social experimenting on social media and dating apps and it’s really become apparent how delusional modern women have become. They can be pregnant, 200 pounds over weight, no job, living with their parents, and STILL think they deserve Channing Tatum. These women put on 20 pounds of make up, wearing special cut jeans to pull all their fat to their ass, special bra’s to hold their boobs up off the ground in a perky position, when you get all this female gear off they look like a blob out of the movie Flubber.
 
It would be one thing if these women were just living their lives, not being feminist, not being controlling, not be manipulative, not being psycho… but they are all of those things. Women have become so full of themselves they will attack any man at will, not just their own husband. They will attack any man that does not kneel down to their commands and demands. No longer is this the minority, it has become the majority. Not just the majority but the almost every single one-ority. Rarely do I ever see a feminine women anymore. Rarely do I see a women taking care of her husband. Rarely do I see a women with hobbies or skills of any kind. Most of the younger ones can’t even cook!
 
I’ve noticed another trend while living in Mexico that ties into the no cooking and weight issue. These young women in Mexico go to college at 20-23 and within that time gain a huge amount of weight. The reason? They don’t know how to cook! They literally go out every night or eat terrible foods and gain extreme amounts of weight in college. Simply, because they can’t cook. Instead of learning they ignore the health problems of 100 pounds of excess weight and trudge on anyway. The worst part is they still think they are a hot little chick. They are bigger horizontally than vertically yet they still think they deserve a guy with a solid job, a house, a car, nice clothes, ect.
 
These women will live at home with mom, with facebook as their job, claiming to be something special and of value. They have no hobbies, no skills, absolutely nothing of value to bring to a relationship or family unit yet they still think they are a goddess.
 
There moms are the same, they have kicked out the husband or boyfriend making him work and send her money. I see this a lot too. So many old fat women sitting on their butt all day watching television playing on their mobile phones barking orders at people while the man is out working all day 6 days a week. If not 7 days a week. Many man working hard in cities other than their families. Only to be cheated on, lied to, treated poorly, yelled at, and more. A common sight in Mexico is a little old man peddling his heart out on a three wheel work bicycle with a big fat old lady yelling and complaining from the cart. These are true stories! I see it daily. I hear old fat saggy ladies with no skills complain about my yard. I’ve had big fat Shrek looking women tell me my parrot is the ugliest parrot she has seen (as I was buying it).
 
These women have become beyond delusional. They literally have nothing of value to offer society, let alone a family unit. The mentality remains, that they deserve Channing Tatum. Even after a while even Channing Tatum isn’t good enough though. The guy doesn’t make enough, his muscles aren’t big enough, he works out too much.. ect ect. These women have no clue what is going on in the world and every action they take drives society further into the hole.
 
Scrolling through any dating app in any country, with feminist propaganda in schools and colleges, will show you a never ending supply of old women looking for love. I saw thousands and thousands, pages and pages, of active, old, ugly, wall hitting women with no skills, several kids, can’t even cook, still with a list of demands for men. Wondering why they have ten cats and no boyfriend. This is not a joke, these old bags would message me and tell me about their cats. Their hobbies? Cats. Their pets? Cats. How many? Many. Pictures? Of course. Private Images? Cats. What do you do for fun? Cats. Cats? Cats.
 
It sounds like a comedy cartoon but it’s sadly reality. I wish I would have taken screenshots of my time behind enemy lines but I didn’t want to spook them in their natural habitat of demanding attention from random men online. Being in Mexico gave me the opportunity to play the rich white investor role opening the door to every women on the app. You have no idea how many fotos of cats were sent to my inbox. How many cat fotos on profiles. How many profiles with lists of demands, requirements, and must do’s for any man just to write her a message. Just to talk to her. These women are beyond delusional and it really is no wonder men have gone their own way.
 
Seriously women, we don’t care about your cats. Actually, I hate cats. Cats suck. In every aspect of life cats suck. They offer no benefit at all and actually hurt the natural environment a lot. They are destructive for no reason. They have mood swings and will bite for no reason even if you are petting them and they are mid pur. They kill and attack anything that moves. Birds, baby rabbits, poultry, literally anything that moves. They destroy local bird populations. They’ve killed off entire litters of baby rabbits. Not only do they do this but most of the time they kill for fun. Not to eat. Not for survival. They kill simply for fun.
 
Many of these characteristics can be applied to modern women. Perhaps it’s why they are the only one’s that actually like cats. Love cats. They are exactly like them. Empty inside. They have to use camouflage and sneaky behavior to catch their prey. They will kill dreams for fun. They will turn and attack a loving partner for no reason at all when life is going great. They will attack anything that disagrees with them. They will destroy their own family. They make creepy noises all night looking for a mate. They demand money and pampering without a job.
 
I got confused about half way through the last two paragraphs because they are so similar. These feminist women have become dead weight on society and worse yet they think they are a princess. They believe they are something special and magical when they literally have no skills at all! They believe they should be treated with respect and have a man spend thousands of dollars on her for the simple fact she is a girl. She has no hobbies, no critical thinking skills, no common sense, no ability to reason. Just one big fat delusion that leaves them alone, crazy, and depressed.
 
One thing these women don’t realize, even men their own age do not want to date them. Why would any reasonable 40 year old man date a 40 year old women. Most 40 year old men have a good career setup. A decent living situation. ect. Why would they waste their time with some old, fat, complaining bag when they can go get a younger girl that will respect him and treat him well. See, these women go along in life waiting for prince charming never acquiring skills of their own. Waiting and waiting until they are 40+ only to realize Mr. Right got tired of waiting for your pampered, spoiled, entitled ass that literally brings nothing but sex to the table.

How Women Use Dating Apps and Social Media

Dating apps and social media like facebook and instagram have become extremely popular in the last few years. Even in 3rd world countries and small villages people will walk out of their house updating their facebook. In places like this men are used as mere narcissistic supply for these modern day vampires.
 
They troll dating apps “looking for friends” while waiting for prince charming to sweep them off their feet. They require someone tall with a good job and status. You can’t say anything that offends them or upsets them or they move on to the other 5,000+ guys that have “liked” her on the app. They plow through man after man wondering why they can’t find Mr. Right. These are the younger girls looking for attention. They feed off the daily compliments of each guy passing through. “Your beautiful” “You’re amazing” “I want to get to know you”. Blah blah blah.
 
If you open up your search to the older women you start to see a pattern. The same descriptions and catch phrases. These older women are hitting the wall wondering why Mr. Right hasn’t swept them off their feet. Why Mr. Right hasn’t given her a personal poem on the dating app to win her approval and love. These women are miserable in their photos and show the real reason they remain single. They think of themselves as gold when the reality is they hold no value. They have no skills, they aren’t feminine, they aren’t empathetic, and they certainly aren’t motherly. Most of them can’t even cook.
 
These same types of women are all over facebook feeding off the same attention and likes. The same on instagram and tumbler and all the others. Women create a train of male “friends” while they conduct from the front. They have a zombie army of narcissistic supply on the ready. Most men have no problem dishing out compliments in hopes of getting laid. It’s a never ending supply for these women. Like a drug they come back daily for more and more.
 
The feminist women get off on rejecting man after man thinking to them self how great they are when the reality is these men are just trying to get laid. When they roll into their 30’s still single it becomes clear how delusional they really were. Modern women want a man they can control that is Mr. Perfect at the same time. When you can’t jump through their hoops you are devalued and discarded for the next man on the list.
 
This delusion feeds into real world interactions. These women walk around like they are God’s gift to earth because they have a bunch of LIKES on social media. Because a bunch of horny dudes saw some cleavage and liked a photo these women get a dose of ego strong enough to kill an elephant. These women build themselves up only to realize the mistake in their 40’s as they start to drop in every angle of appearance and personality.
 
Dating apps and social media are a quick fix for unhealthy attention and it creates a delusional sense of pride and entitlement in relationships. Women hold themselves on a pedestal even if you DON’T. They think of them selves as princesses while they feed off every willing man.
 
Dating apps and social media provide a perfect environment for these women to continue their cycle of abuse. Not only on themselves, but the men around them. The men waste valuable time trying to win the affection of these entitled women. Men waste valuable money and resources chasing these women who only want them for their compliments and attention.
 
When it’s all over there will be nothing but women on these dating apps and social media. Even the most beta man will figure out he is being used as nothing but a play toy and eventually move on. He will close his account, find his passion and hobbies, and make himself a bright future. He will go his own way leaving these women in the dust fighting for compliments on social media from a few momma’s boys desperate for female affection.

Atheism vs MGTOW

There’s quite a few men that identify as MGTOW that also claim to be atheists. There are many issues for the mindset of a atheist MGTOW that can be damaging to themselves and MGTOW. The reality is atheists can’t handle conversation about Jesus Christ or the Bible without getting emotional. Emotional men are the cryptonite to MGTOW. MGTOW itself will become more stagnant as atheists take and control the speaking platform.
 
Several MGTOW websites and youtube channels are completely opposed to sharing biblical information, religious history, and legal history. They confuse religion with the Bible because of ignorance and lack of research. They believe that by ignoring religion and the Bible that it doesn’t apply. They believe that ignoring these concepts they can simply avoid them. The reality is though feminism, evolution, government, religion, and atheism all go hand in hand. They are agendas created by the social elite to control secular society. It’s why men get screwed in the court room and every where else in society. It’s why men get bent over and screwed by a women. The system in place right now is an atheist legal system based upon contractual law.
 
The problem however is not an atheist living apathetic, rather their emotional female nature that can be quite devastating to MGTOW. Their goal is to divide and conquer and leave MGTOW 100% atheist. They do not want outside opinions, thoughts, or individualism. Atheists want everyone to believe the same, act the same, ect, and if you DON’T you will become a target. They will become a cult like pack of hyenas hell bent on causing drama and division because they can’t keep up with an intelligent conversation. They feel themselves being left behind in MGTOW because they have nothing real to offer.
 
The entire concept of marriage comes from the Bible. Yet atheist MGTOW are angry about women not being submissive biblical women? The entire concept of MGTOW comes from the Bible too. Yet atheist MGTOW are angry about any scripture, religion ,or biblical reference. They go into a fit of emotional rage anytime someone merely mentions the Bible or Jesus Christ. The hate speech and projection by atheists is the same hate speech and projection feminists use to bash men. Atheists love to use female nature to attack anyone that disagrees with them. Not only do atheists attack themselves, but they call upon the government to attack for them as well. Attacking anything and everything and even to go as far as removing the 10 commandments from local court house grounds and replacing it with a satan statue. Yeah that’s right, atheists couldn’t handle the 10 commandments so they had it removed and replaced with a satan statue. And they aren’t religious?
 
Another thing atheists do is create drama and then claim that the topic of religion, the bible, or Jesus Christ is what creates the division and drama. The reality is the atheist is the one causing the drama to shut down any conversation about these topics. They create the drama and then pass the blame. Another manipulative game played in the female nature game. They will sling insults until they are blue in the face and the minute you question their behavior they become the victim. Claiming you are a big mean preacher man. That you should leave, go away, stop talking. See the problem is not religion, politics, or race. The problem is emotional men fronting as MGTOW. The problem is cowardly atheist men pretending MGTOW doesn’t come from the Bible. Pretending they don’t want a biblical marriage while complaining about female nature. News flash atheists, FEMALE NATURE started in the GARDEN. The concept of biblical marriage is that of the BIBLE. A concept created by God. Then turned upside down by feminist, atheism, and government.
 
Atheists complain about female nature and that marriage has been turned upside down yet they bash and hate the bible in every way. Atheist MGTOW live in a state of constant denial. A constant denial of reality and history. They will claim Christians killed people while lumping everyone under the catholic church. When in reality the true church FOUGHT the catholic church. There is a total disconnect from atheist MGTOW and instead of promoting growth and conversation, they do nothing but divide and cause drama. Atheist MGTOW will be the destruction of MGTOW in the long run. If a plant stops growing, it’s dead. That’s just reality. Atheists leave MGTOW in a place of stagnation. No growth. No intelligent conversation. Just bland women hating with no real objectives or goals.
 
Let me ask you a question fellas, does the average women in the USA believe in evolution? Does she believe she is entitled to rights and freedoms she didn’t earn? Does she believe she is better than you? That you are nothing but a disposable ape? I wonder where she got this mentality. I wonder where the mentality of looking down on less evolved cavemen came from… Wasn’t it beta cuck blue pill atheists that helped women get the right to vote? Wasn’t it atheists that helped women pass the right to abortion? Of course it was! They go hand in hand. Ask any atheist and he totally supports abortion. He totally supports paying for women’s birth control. He totally supports planned parenthood! All feminist inventions. They go hand in hand! MGTOW and atheism are directly opposed to each other. Atheists love feminism and government. MGTOW does not. They are total opposites.
 
It becomes quite obvious why they teach evolution and feminism together in every school, tv show, and college. Every movie, documentary, and science show display evolution feminism as fact. Atheists don’t question what they are told, instead they use female nature to manipulate away the realities of MGTOW in the Bible. They ignore history and the fake legal system all to promote their religion of atheism.
 
Any interview with an emotional MGTOW atheist reveals a women hating jackass that does nothing but bash women. This is a golden nugget for the main stream media. They simply have to bring up connections of MGTOW to the bible to set off the atheist while they film his emotional women bashing rant. Revealing to the world that MGTOW are nothing but women hating misogynists. Their inability to have a real conversation about the problems without connecting evolution and atheism to their content is a real problem. It’s a problem that can easily be used to dis route and dismantle MGTOW. Keeping it from becoming anything real to more than a handful of men.
 
All of this adds up to be quite destructive to a group of men that require intelligent conversation. A group of men looking for growth. Atheism doesn’t fit with the MGTOW and it will be the fall of it. That’s self evident by their emotional temper tantrums and shit flinging. It’s evident by their anger and constant women bashing. They have no clue what’s really going on so they cling to MGTOW because it is biblical truth cloaked in secularism. It’s the closest their ego will let them get to truth.
 
In the near future we will see how destructive atheism is to MGTOW. As they root out any intelligent conversation and replace it with that of Idiocracy debates and bashing or simply turning their viewers into disposable utilities for income. When MGTOW is left with nothing but atheists because they have driven off any intelligent man. Shutting down any conversation and growth is the key tool of the atheists and feminists. Almost everything said about feminism can be applied to the hypocritical atheist. Both use government to enforce their agenda. And both drive off smart intelligent men.
 
The fall of MGTOW will come because of a bunch of angry atheists stuck in red pill rage creating division for anyone looking to grow. Anyone that does not believe their religion will be attacked, shamed, and driven off.
 
Red Pills from the Bible:
 
Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth. Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. – Proverbs 7:24-26
 
For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. – Proverbs 5:3-4
 
To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words; Which forsaketh the guide of her youth, and forgetteth the covenant of her God. – Proverbs 2:16-17
 
And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not. – 1 Timothy 5:13
 
For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit. She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men. – Proverbs 23:27-28
 
The mouth of strange women is a deep pit: he that is abhorred of the Lord shall fall therein. – Proverbs 22:14
 
Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness. – Proverbs 30:20
 
Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. – Proverbs 14:1
 
As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion. – Proverbs 11:22
 
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. – Proverbs 12:4
 
Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. – 1 Timothy 3:11
 
A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike. – Proverbs 27:15
 
And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery. – Mark 10:12
 
Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. – Proverbs 31:30
 
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman. – Proverbs 21:19

 
Ezekiel 16
^^^ Change the word JERUSALEM in verse 2 to MODERN WOMEN. Seems this is not the first time in history this has happened and the Bible was warning you the entire time. There’s a reason feminists, atheists, and liberals HATE the bible. It reveals all their games, their plan, and their agenda.

Why Do Narcissists Devalue and Discard

Sometimes we as humans just need a bit of reassurance. We constantly think to ourselves it’s not that bad, it can change, it sees the error, it will work on it. The truth is that narcissists devalue and discard for several reasons and they all benefit them, not you. You are an emotional toy for the other person to feed off like a vampire from 1400’s Romania. Imagine being victim to Dracula only to wake up every day with him for the rest of your life, never to turn into a vampire yourself, but to be his personal blood bag to leech off anytime he can’t find a victim elsewhere.
 
Perhaps Dracula is a bad example. A lot of women like to live on the fictional “fact” that most narcissists are men. The truth is there are narcissistic men. I have met a few in my life; some worse than others. Only a couple times though in my life have I come across extreme narcissistic men with manipulative behaviors. Everyone has potential to manipulate in uncomfortable situations, but a narcissist will do it for fun. To create and maintain an image of themselves that they want to present to society. Only those closest have seen the mask come off. The other side of this coin is that I have met MANY narcissistic women. I would say the more I think about it the higher the percentage goes. Almost every female I have met in my life has displayed signs of extreme narcissism within a few minutes of meeting them.
 
The narcissistic women has become glorified in today’s society whereas the narcissistic man has been shamed for a long time. I’m not here to argue for the narcissistic male. I’ve noticed most are extremely catty, feminine, and manipulative. They display mostly female characteristics and tend to be total cowards so in no way do I promote the narcissistic male. The reality is though our society worships the narcissistic female on social media, television, movies, and more. Gynocentrism is safety net modern women fall back on. They have free will to be not only narcissistic, but a narcissistic sociopath.
 
Pro Narcissistic Female Court Systems:
The court systems, especially child and divorce courts, have become female dominated. A male going into either one of these systems can expect the worst, including high payments, loss of retirement, garnished wages, loss of children, loss of house, loss of job, threats, slander, defamation, and more. This is not my opinion either, this has become common place. You can’t even argue with these facts because a simple look into any of these court systems proves this. The courts promote all of this behavior by rewarding the women based on false accusations and lies.
 
Another huge problem is child abuse and molestation. Studies show that mothers are far more likely to molest or harm their own children than the father and the percentages are a land slide. Once again, the court system has left women with a huge loop hole in their punishment for harming children, especially their own. As a mother you can do anything you want to your child sexually and it will never be considered rape. In legalese rape requires penetration. In legalese a women therefor can’t rape a man or boy. Even when caught these women face no consequences for their actions or extremely light consequences. A man has sex with a middle school girl and society wants him to hang. A women molests her own student in a school and they praise the student for getting an older chick.
 
Pro Narcissistic Female Media:
You can’t go anywhere on television or main stream internet without hearing about feminism, women’s rights, cheating husbands, and evil men. Almost every movie that’s released portrays the husbands and men as babbling idiots that can’t cook, take care of the family or children, or do anything right. They need constant direction, orders, and work or they will create total destruction. Essentially narcissistic female brainwashing and projection everywhere you look. Women grow up watching this and seeing it within her own family think its common. They are given the gift of entitlement. They grow up thinking they can treat other people like this, let alone their own husband or boyfriend.
 
Music is another tool used to portray the independent narcissistic female. From outfits and jewelry to shoes and purses. Women are fed narcissistic encouragement to act like this and it’s nothing but benefits for them. The music, movies, and television portray women as having total control never facing consequences for their actions. I’ve literally questioned a girls behavior before only to hear some Beyonce lyrics. It’s almost as if they are trying to project their need to be directed, ordered, and guided through life. It would explain the need for women to manipulate and lie to compete and take the edge. History is evident that women in charge = destruction. Look to ANY large civilization that crumbled. As society toppled down on top of them their politicians simply mumbled “feminism” from the debris.
 
Do I really even need to mention social media? I guess I should. Considering the amount of women, compared to men, that post selfies showing off their bodies is endless. Go to literally any social media site and you will find unlimited photos of women in skimpy outfits, bikinis, and butt shots in order to get likes. A lot of people claim to be making money off it but they aren’t. The reality is you don’t make any money from facebook for posting pictures. You make nothing from posting to instagram or twitter. Nothing at all. These women live in a delusional fairy tale land where every dude they meet “online” is slobbering over them willing to dole out his soul for one night. You see them walking in the streets with there heads down ashamed of who they really are pretending to be some hot independent women. They have no hobbies, no skills, no conversational ability. Just empty shells.
 
Pro Narcissistic Blue Pill Men:
I don’t know how many times I’ve been called a misogynist by some dude that didn’t even know the definition, all in honor of his feminist sex partner. How many times I’ve seen men put up with endless amounts of bullshit all in the name of Puss the cat. How many times I’ve seen men act as the flying monkeys for their narcissistic girl crush. These men are total cowards and typically gravitate to positions of power themselves. Most blue pill men see the need to climb the ladder and chant for government because they are trying to attract a mate. They don’t care how they are treated, they don’t care how she treats others, he just wants Puss the cat and he doesn’t care about anything else. He is blind to the reality he lives in. If he simply chased cats all day it would be one thing, the problem becomes evident when he becomes an enabler of this behavior especially when it affects other people.
 
Blue pill men hide behind the same feminist gynocentrism facade that modern women do. They pretend what they are doing is the right thing, or honorable and virtuous. The reality is they are nothing but a red cotton ball. They give up their own dignity and self worth to bend over backwards chasing cats. It gets even worse when you find these men attacking real men that stand their ground against entitled, self absorbed, delusional women. These blue pill men are the ones feeding and drooling over girls on Facebook, Instagram, and other social media. These blue pill men are suiting up daily to defend their women and take you out if it means they get a little affection from their princess.
 
Pro Narcissistic Female Colleges:
Colleges are literally the birthing ground for feminism. A lot of people claim it started with the feminist “movement” but the reality is feminism itself was injected into colleges before it really got pushed into society. Anytime a social agenda is to be put into place they always use colleges and schools. I have personally witnessed friends and family become neutered and feminazized after just a few years at college. Every college kid has the exact same beliefs about evolution, abortion, feminism, women’s rights, society, earth, life, ect. They literally are like parrots repeating what they are told. The reality is that’s the only way they can actually pass and graduate is by repeating what they are told. You can’t graduate and “get a good job” if you don’t believe these same ideals. This is proved every time I talk with a college kid. Especially in groups they will always all have the exact same opinion. Colleges are the breeding grounds for feminism, gynocentrism, and the blue pill male. Literally. How many marriages happened because they met there? Think about it.
 
Why Do Narcissists Devalue and Discard:
So back to the original questions as to why narcissistic devalue and discard… the devaluing is based on the attempt to get above you and take control. If you think less of yourself you will not fight back. You will not argue. You will think you are lucky to have such a wonderful women that loves you so much and would put up with your worthless self. This goes hand in hand with everything else mentioned here. It also makes them feel better about themselves. It’s a constant reminder of how bad you are and how great they are. Anytime some one devalues you it is an immediate red flag to get away. Criticism is okay, but devaluation is completely different. If you are asking yourself WHY someone is devaluing you it’s already too late. You are becoming blue pill and accepting this behavior because society deems it okay. You are accepting that you are a bad person and she is great. Don’t fall for this trick and start asking yourself where your shoes are instead and get out of there.
 
When someone decides to finally discard you, especially women, they tend to be quite brutal about it. They want you to know they have moved on to someone better, they want you to know they are happy, they want you to know a bunch of random crap that makes them look and feel good, leaving you feeling alone and depressed. This is all camouflage to hide their behavior. It’s to hide the fact she was actually caught with another guy. It’s to hide the fact she stole money or your children. It’s to hide the evil things she did to you and try and make herself the victim. They pretend they where trying so hard and that it was you that just couldn’t fix things. The discard happens when they have no more use for you. Whether you start defending yourself, saying no, or you start to break down her lies. They have a sixth sense about knowing when you know and start distancing themselves immediately. They know they have been left before for this exact behavior and want to get out before you leave them. Once again society sets them up for this discard. The divorce courts have made it extremely beneficial for women to get divorced, have children, or rob their husbands blind. Society has made it easy for women to call the police and have their man arrested on false accusations of rape or violence. Society has made it easy for the female to discard the male in the most brutal ways only to be cheered on by media, college campuses, and the court system.
 

Why Women are Manipulative in Relationships

When in confrontation with most women you’ll always start to question the narrative about half way through. This is because they will have tried to gas light you three or four times in just a few short minutes. This is an all out barrage on your brain that leaves you exhausted and bewildered. You often ask yourself WHY?! Why on earth do you feel the need to continue manipulating reality, why do you continue lying about the situation, why can’t you simply take responsibility for your actions.. These are all thoughts that generally come to mind in most relationships I’ve seen first hand or personally been in myself.
 
We ask ourselves why? We can’t comprehend why they continue to lie and manipulate even when confronted. They just keep trying. I have pondered this several times and competition always seems to be one of the biggest roots stemming into the war on your mental health. Women have been told their entire life that they are equal to men. That they can be independent, career driven, AND happy. In the work place, at home, in school, they are in constant competition with men, their boyfriends, and their husbands. Mentally, physically, and who wears the pants in the household. It’s a constant battle in every family because what exactly is EQUAL?! Should the women chop and stack wood 50% of the time? Should the husband mop the floor while the wife builds the new barn? See the reality is yes, of course a women can do those things. But the average man is going to accomplish the task at a much higher rate than the average female. This is not equality. Women can give birth, nurse their babies, and look good doing it. Men can not give birth, nurse a baby, and we certainly would not look good doing it.
 
The biggest lie both women and men have been told by society is that we are equal. We are not, and we never will be. Equality is just a fairy tale for liberalism and socialism to spread its wings and indoctrinate everyone with it’s kind words; but it’s not true. Not only is it not true but it creates total chaos in the family unit. Inside the man and women’s own mental thinking and life. A women wastes her entire life in a career to find out she can’t have children anymore and dies alone. What’s the point? Especially when all dogs go to heaven, not cats.
 
Men are told they are equal to women, that they should be submissive, passive, and non-expressive of male emotions. How can a man be a man if he can’t get manly every once in a while.. but to a feminist modern typical women this is the death of the marriage or relationship. Or soon to be the death after a war for power ensues the entire thing. Equality in any relationship is impossible. It’s a constant conflict of trying to balance the weights on each side of the scale. Peace comes from accepting your role in the relationship and learning how to thrive in it. Not fight it.
 
This seems to be one of the big reasons women feel the need to lie, manipulate, and control a situation. They are in a power struggle they can’t win. They have to use shame, guilt, lies, and control to gain the power. The reality is the average man could man handle the average women. I don’t condone violence it’s just an example. The man has the raw power. He wields the ability to create, build, and destroy with his bare hands. The women can not compete with this raw power. Her only way is through this manipulation, breaking you down, getting you to her level.
 
The reality is if a women accepted her role in the family and embraced it, there would be no lying, no manipulation, no games, and no control. There would be no fight for dominance, no fight for power, no fight for leadership. In reality that would be the equal relationship. The fair and healthy relationship. This is non-existent in today’s culture. Looking at any married couple is evidence enough that the women’s softball team wears the nut cups. Married men have become docile and beat down and those that run are shamed, stolen from, or worse, robbed of their children. All because they said “NO”.

Narcissistic Mothers and the Fall of Real Men

In a politically correct society talking about mothers is strictly forbidden. They are angels of God here to give birth to more angels of God and they can do no wrong. In a politically correct society mothers and women are worshiped for there ability to give birth. They can’t lie, steal, manipulate, or be bad people in anyway. All mothers are great, hard working, loving women and if you say anything contrary to this you are crazy.
 
That essentially sums up the mindset of every feminist minded modern women and her blue pill husband and children. Which is pretty much 99% of modern day families. On television men are portrayed as idiot buffoons that can’t take care of their children. They are shown as bumbling idiots that can barely cook a meal. This all plays into the mentality of women do no harm and men are retarded idiots. Being masculine or manly in any way results in shame, guilt, and an all out shunning. I have lived this first hand anytime I stand my ground on basic political principles. I have been called a misogynist because I told a girl that it’s not legal or right to steal money from someone else so that they can have sex. I have been called masochist or some word like that for standing my ground against abortion. The physical abuse never dwindled when confronting feminist logic with truth and it knows no boundaries.
 
Seeing where the behavior is enforced is critical in finding out the results of the behavior. The intended result I guess I should say. Simply put, a few generations of blue pill males leaves a government at large. It leaves for a government with no checks or balances. It leaves an atmosphere of cowardliness. You’ll never see a group of feminists or liberal men fighting government. In fact the exact opposite. FIGHTING FOR GOVERNMENT.
 
Recently it really hit be on what degree feminism has on shaping a society and increasing government at the same time. How the atmosphere created is the perfect result for a government pushing the agenda. You have no one left to question the government and the only men left are literally worshiping the government. You have no men left to fight back. To stand there ground. This is being played out before our very eyes. The results of the feminist mindset being played out.
 
This is another big reason why they teach evolution in government schools. It plays out to the same feminist mindset. It plays into the same reasoning that government knows all and that you should listen to everything they tell you. Everything is fact and if they say so it must be. Most atheists are actually statists. They just don’t realize it.
 
I asked myself recently who is the main indoctrinators? Who are the ones pushing this agenda so hard on the children? The obvious answers are the public school system, the government propaganda system. Growing up in the house of a masters degree holding 5th grade teacher I saw these things play out first hand. The more I thought about it though public schools were only a part of that indoctrination into being a wussy simp blue pill beta cuck that most men have become. When I compared my mother to the teacher I saw a whole different story.
 
I realized it wasn’t as much the school system as it was my mother teaching me how to act towards women, how to treat women, how to obey authority, how to blindly follow government, and most importantly, how to treat women and act as a man. Now this environment is only possible when the husband or father allows it. Funny enough my fathers mother was a teacher too.
 
So how can the mother be responsible for the fall of man? How can a women be responsible? There’s a very important story that comes to mind when I ask myself this question. Perhaps you too, in a garden, a few thousand years ago.
 
As a young man I learned directly from my parents obviously. I witnessed first hand the wickedness and deception a women can bring upon a family and how to pretend like nothing was happening. Not only did I witness it. I learned how to do it too. I learned how to manipulate people at a very young age to get exactly what I wanted, when I wanted it. My mother was so good at these things it went virtually un-noticed by everyone around. To this day most of my family does not talk to me after I confronted her. She is the innocent loving mother.
 
The reality is though, I was on course to being a beta cuck blue pill douche bag if I lived the life she wanted me to live and if I used her powers I could become very powerful. It was pounded into my head at a young age that I need to become a doctor or a lawyer. I constantly heard from everyone growing up what a great lawyer I would be. These sayings where simply seeds from the master manipulator. I always had a strong sense of individualism though so this would always backfire on my mother.
 
Rebellion is the only thing that kept me going. I remember getting my first tattoos at age 15 and how happy I was seeing my mom cry about it. I remember running away was like going for a jog for me when I couldn’t handle the mental games. I remember when I was a kid I put a lock on my bedroom door to keep her games out of my room. As high school progressed I started to figure all of this out and see how powerful it was. Like sitting on top of a hill bouncing a small flame between my hands overlooking the city. I started to harness the power that came with it and unleash it on unsuspecting victims. I grew up like this. I grew up knowing nothing but this.
 
These powers became quite dangerous and overwhelming. At such a young age I mixed the things I learned from my mother, mixed with my own logic, reason, and emotional control. I was able to play people and lie with ease. I could convince you that you were me and I was you and get you to switch ID’s. When you mix rebellion with these powers you become a super villain. You become someone like the Joker. You treat people like disposable rags. In a way that will only bring benefit to you. You see how destructive you are when you take responsibility for your actions. When you look in the mirror you see yourself.
 
My father was a pretty good dad though. My mother would manipulate him into a rage sometimes and he would act out towards me as the scapegoat. Later realizing what he had done to apologize. Unfortunately though, he taught me some very important lessons in life. That women are in charge. That women wear the pants. That women have the balls. That a women can do anything she wants with no responsibility. He would play catch with me, hunting, and fishing. But not how to stand my ground. He never taught me how value myself as a man. He never taught me that I was the prize. He never taught me how to be a sovereign individual. He carried a lot of blue pill baggage. His mother was the same as mine. I don’t blame him for it though. He worked hard and tried his best. That was always his problem though.
 
He was stuck in my mothers playground. Stuck in monkey bar mayhem. He thought he had to keep doing more to make everyone happy. He never realized it was his wife making him feel that. Not his children. I was happy with his time.. but he never had much because he was jumping through my mothers hoops. Another great game of my mother was pitting my father against me or my sister. Or my sister against I. I saw the similarities within my grandmother. Same attitudes of her mother. Total hate and rudeness towards men. Total disrespect. Telling him to shut up in front of an entire party only to have all the women cackle and laugh like hyenas. Now I realize why my dad never really wanted to go to those.
 
The problem was my father was the “nice guy”. He continued giving in to her bullshit. These are the lessons he taught me as a man growing up. These lessons are not on me alone. I see the same thing happening in families across the world. The same games being played out. I see the cycles from generation to generation. How it trickles down from the spout. The feminist mentality is an absolute cancer to society. The problem is most don’t realize it’s actually social programming. They created the movement. Women did not even start it. Feminism is reaching its goal of destroying family and reversing roles of men and women.
 
The blue pill mindset comes from a delusional feminist mother. It’s programmed and critiqued to a T. The side effects of the blue pill can be life threatening. Including thoughts of suicide, stomach pain, anxiety, ADD, ADHD, depression, guilt, shame, anger, (many more things, stop reading this.. just take your blue pills) All of this is conditioned from the mother to the children. This is not unique, its not rare, it’s NORMAL in our society. Take a glance at the prescription medication people are scarfing down in the USA.
 
This blue pill mindset leaves a man raw for government over reach. A blue pill man will not fight back. He will not take arms and defend himself. This has been a generational increase. It continues to get worse and worse. When you take away all the strings and pull off all the puppets, it’s the mothers that are left guilty. Their pride and ego has gone strait to their head just like the fruit. The more rights and privileges they are given in society the larger their head grows. When you realize women think it’s right and good to fight for the right to kill their own child, they are delusional. Whether you agree on abortion or not, the reality that women are fighting for this right is delusional. Why not the right to birth control pills that work 100% of the time? See the problem? How far women have fallen.
 
It’s no coincidence that the government gives aid to the theft of money and children by women in divorce. It’s not coincidence that weak men benefit feminist women and the government. If a man tries to fight back the government hits him with the feminist hammer.
 
Obviously parents instill values on their children. There’s a big problem in society when the mother has none and the father can’t stand up for his.
 
The only way to fight back is to tell the truth. To stand on the truth. And never back down from any bald headed feminist. No matter how sharp and green her teeth are. Never back down!
 

“And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.” – Genesis 3:6 (KJV)

Modern Day Women’s Translation:

“And when the woman saw that the GOVERNMENT was good for FOOD, and that it was pleasant to the PURSE, and a GOVERNMENT to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and TOOK also her husbands; and DID EAT HIS TOO.”

 

Standing Your Ground Against Feminism

Dealing with the feminist mindset can be exhausting. Like fighting your way through a tornado only to find out there’s a hurricane on the other side. Growing up in a home with an “educated, masters degree, independent, great, women” of a mother, which is actually code for self entitled, self absorbed, feminist, narcissistic sociopath, I started to develop an anti-feminist mentality. Not based on hate or anger, but based on reality and logic. Having encounters with these types of woman through out life help me identify a lot of the causes and reasons. Even when these women are merely friends with no sexual attraction or friction they still carry out their man hating attacks. Whether aggressive, passive aggressive, bi-proxy, ect.
 
What is bi-proxy you ask? Well that is when a manipulative college educated women uses her vagina and sex appeal to trick a man into having the same opinion as her. A quote from a permaculture dude named Paul Wheaton, “Most people NEED to hear their own opinion from all other people and are frustrated that they don’t have the might to make it “right.” And it is so true in the subject of feminism, and the modern women. The reality is most women do not admit to being a feminist but certainly hold to the ideals and values feminism brings.
 
I have actually had this happen to me many times. I have had grown men call me a misogynist with their girlfriend or wife sitting next to them with a smirk on her face. I have asked these grown men, what is this word misogynist, can you give me a definition. Most look at me like a deer in the headlights. Like they’ve been discovered as the true coward they are. They have no clue what a misogynist is but they heard the vagina they want say it so they are trying to look good. To protect her. Her knight in shining armor. The reality is this man feels and looks like a total coward. He knows that I have discovered his lies and that he has no idea what he is talking about. He is merely a mouth piece for the vagina.
 
You know feminism is ingrained in the heads of every educated women because when they try and debate or argue they are shot down with logic and reason. They get angry that their entire philosophy can be attributed to the Jesuits as a way to destroy the feminine, empathetic, caring, women. They used feminism to create total chaos in the families of every home. Whether through television, media, or the government school system they slowly poisoned the minds of women.
 
It wouldn’t be a big deal if these feminist maintained their viewpoints outside of government; but since this is a direct agenda from the people that own government they have used it in their favor. This mentality has resulted in thousands of men losing their bank accounts, children, dignity, and sanity. It has resulted in a government full of educated women that hate men. That are given a free pass to do anything they want. Considering most voters are women as well, it leaves for little room for change in a positive way for men. I only see it getting worse.
 
This mentality carries to every vagina mouthpiece. This mentality is grabbed up by every college women. It gives them the ability to have sex for free on the tax payers dime. It gives them the ability to kill their own child. It gives them a sense of undeserved entitlement and sovereignty. They take whatever they want, do whatever they want, and the law supports them.
 
Another problem that stems from these vaginas and their mouth pieces is that gossip and slander. They can’t just have an argument or debate. They feel the need to talk about it to everyone they know. To change what you said and manipulate your opinions to fit their narrative. Now of course this leaves you outside the group, with them all believing a bunch of non-sense and never questioning the feminist narrative. I have seen it many times, where I obviously destroy a silly feminist argument and instead of a rebuttal, they go into shaming, guilting, hate, ect. And when they are done with that, they go tell everyone that will listen how I am women hating man. That I am misogynist. And then you have the vagina mouthpiece say it to my face. I have seen these women literally lose it over a debate like this. Drunk and passed out on the sidewalk 2 hours later.. cognitive dissonance.
 
See, the reality is most feminist and modern women have no accountability. They never blame themselves for their destructive ways. They never look in the mirror. They just blame men and patriarchy. Then they pick themselves up by their own bootstraps, put on their mask, and look for a new prey. The only way to actually win is to always stand your ground.
 
When I say stand your ground it doesn’t mean you pull out a club and starting beating people. What I mean is to have your thoughts well articulated and grounded in reality and truth. This way when an emotional educated women starts losing her shit you can simply recite truths in a calm manner. This to me, is the best way to awaken other men to the reality. What’s the next thought a deer has after it’s caught in the headlights? Oh fuck. Then? RUN.
 
When you stand your ground you not only need to stand against this feminist non-sense, but also the women worship by their mouthpiece. These men need to see other real men standing their ground. These men have had their confidence and dignity shattered at an early age by, most likely, their own mother. This results in the blue pill man chasing validation from a women. Why else would a grown man call another man a misogynist?
 
The reality is a grown man should never even use this word. The reality is the word itself makes no sense at all. Probably just another feminist invention to shame men that stand their ground. Let’s look at the definitions of these words:
 
mi·sog·y·nist
a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women.
 
prej·u·diced
having or showing a dislike or distrust that is derived from prejudice; bigoted.
 
prej·u·dice
preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.
 
Okay, so by definition if a man is giving first hand experience of these things it CAN NOT be misogynist or prejudice against women. It is simply the truth. Misogynist would be a man that does not like woman but has never talked to one, dated one, seen one in his life, married one, lost children to one, lost his bank account to one, ect. So by definition this word doesn’t even make sense. In reality, when you change the word women to men. It fits the bill for a feminist.
 
Most feminists do not have experience with losing their children to a man, they have no experience losing their bank account to a man; most feminists have never been raped yet they accuse all men of raping and starting a rape culture. So by definition feminists and modern women are more misogynist than Men Going Their Own Way men.
 
Or maybe it needs its own word? Femogynist.

How Narcissists and Sociopaths Take Advantage of You

In popular culture, the term “narcissistic” is thrown about quite loosely, usually referring to vanity and self-absorption. This reduces narcissism to a common quality that everyone possesses and downplays the symptoms demonstrated by people with the actual disorder. While narcissism does exist on a spectrum, narcissism as a full-fledged personality disorder is quite different.
 
People who meet the criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder or those who have traits of Antisocial Personality Disorder can operate in extremely manipulative ways within the context of intimate relationships due to their deceitfulness, lack of empathy, and their tendency to be inter-personally exploitative. Although I will be focusing on narcissistic abusers in this post, due to the overlap of symptoms in these two disorders, this can potentially apply to interactions with those who have ASPD to an extent.
 
It’s important in any kind of relationship that we learn to identify the red flags when interacting with people who display malignant narcissism and/or antisocial traits, so we can better protect ourselves from exploitation and abuse, set appropriate boundaries with others, and make informed decisions about who we keep in our lives. Understanding the nature of these toxic interactions and how they affect us has an enormous impact on our ability to engage in self-care.
 
Watch out for the following covert manipulation tactics when you’re dating someone or in any other kind of relationship:
 
1. The Idealization-Devaluation-Discard Phase
Narcissists and those with antisocial traits tend to subject romantic partners through three phases within a relationship. The idealization phase (which often happens most strongly during the early stages of dating or a relationship) consists of putting you on a pedestal, making you the center of his/her world, being in contact with you frequently, and showering you with flattery and praise. You are convinced that the narcissist can’t live without you and that you’ve met your soulmate. Be wary of: constant texting, shallow flattery and wanting to be around you at all times. This is a technique known as “love-bombing” and it is how most victims get sucked in: they are flattered by the constant attention they get from the narcissist. You may be fooled into thinking that this means a narcissist is truly interested in you, when in fact, he or she is interested in making you dependent on their constant praise and attention.
 
The devaluation phase is subsequent to this idealization phase, and this is when you’re left wondering why you were so abruptly thrust off the pedestal. The narcissist will suddenly start to blow hot and cold, criticizing you, covertly and overtly putting you down, comparing you to others, stonewalling you, emotionally withdrawing from you and giving you the silent treatment when you’ve failed to meet their extreme “standards.” Since the “hot” aspect of this phase relies on intermittent reinforcement in which the narcissist gives you inconsistent spurts of the idealization phase throughout, you become convinced that perhaps you are at fault and you can “control” the narcissist’s reactions.
 
You are mislead into thinking that if you just learn not to be so “needy” or “clingy,” the narcissist will reward you with the loving behavior he or she demonstrated in the beginning. These are words that narcissists often use to demean victims when abuse victims mourn the loss of the idealization phase or react normally to being provoked. It’s a way to maintain control over your legitimate emotional reactions to their stonewalling, emotional withdrawal and inconsistency.
 
Unfortunately, it is during the devaluation phase that a narcissist’s true self shows itself. You have to understand that the man or woman in the beginning of the relationship never truly existed. The true colors are only now beginning to show, so it will be a struggle as you attempt to reconcile the image that the narcissist presented to you with his or her current behavior.
 
Even though the narcissist can be quite possessive and jealous over you, since he or she views you as an object and a source of narcissistic supply, the narcissist is prone to projecting this behavior onto you. The narcissist makes you seem like the needy one as you react to his or her withdrawal and withholding patterns even though the expectations of frequent contact were established early on in the relationship by the narcissist himself.
 
During the discard phase, the narcissist abandons his or her victim in the most horrific, demeaning way possible to convince the victim that he or she is worthless. This could range from: leaving the victim for another lover, humiliating the victim in public, blatantly ignoring the partner for a long period of time, being physically aggressive and a whole range of other demeaning behaviors to communicate to the victim that he or she is no longer important.
 
Although “normal” relationships can end in a similar this manner as well, the difference is that the narcissist often makes it clear he or she intends to hurt you by giving you the silent treatment, spreading rumors about you, cheating on you, insulting you and disrespecting you during the discard phase. Unlike “normal” partners, they ensure that you never have closure, and if you decide to leave them, they might decide to stalk you to show that they still have control.
 
2. Gaslighting
While healthy relationships have room for respectful disagreement and consideration of one’s feelings, with the narcissist, gaslighting and constant emotional invalidation become the norm. Gaslighting is a technique abusers use to convince you that your perception of the abuse is inaccurate. During the devaluation and discard phases, the narcissist will often invalidate and criticize your emotions, and displace any blame of his or her abuse as your fault. Frequent use of phrases such as “You provoked me,” “You’re too sensitive,” “I never said that,” or “You’re taking things too seriously” after the narcissists’ abusive outbursts are common and are used to gaslight you into thinking that the abuse is indeed your fault or that it never even took place.
 
Narcissists are masters of making you doubt yourself and the abuse. This is why victims so often suffer even after the ending of a relationship with a narcissist, because the emotional invalidation they received from the narcissist made them feel powerless in their agency and perceptions. This self-doubt enables them to stay within abusive relationships even when it’s clear that the relationship is a toxic one, because they are led to mistrust their own instincts and interpretations of events.
 
3. Smear campaigns
Narcissists keep harems because they love to have their egos stroked and they need constant validation from the outside world to confirm their grandiose sense of self-importance and fulfill their need for excessive admiration. This is why they are clever chameleons who are also people-pleasers, morphing into whatever personality suits them in situations with different types of people to get what they want.
 
Beware of people who seem to shape-shift suddenly before your eyes into different personas — this is a red flag that they are not authentic in their interactions with you and others. It is no surprise, then, that the narcissist will probably begin a smear campaign against you not too long after the discard phase, in order to paint you as the unstable one, and that this is usually successful with the narcissist’s support network which also tends to consist of other narcissists, people-pleasers, empaths, as well as people who are easily charmed.
 
This smear campaign is used to accomplish three things: 1) it depicts you as the abuser or unstable person and deflects your accusations of abuse; 2) it provokes you into responding, thus proving your instability to others when trying to argue his or her depiction of you; and 3) serves as a hoovering technique in which the narcissist seeks to pull you back into the trauma of the relationship as you struggle to reconcile the rumors about you with who you actually are by speaking out against the accusations.
 
The only way to not get pulled into this tactic is by going full No Contact with both the narcissist and his or her harem.
 
4. Triangulation
Healthy relationships thrive on security; unhealthy ones are filled with provocation, uncertainty and infidelity. Narcissists like to manufacture love triangles and bring in the opinions of others to validate their point of view. They do this to an excessive extent in order to play puppeteer to your emotions. In the book Psychopath Free by Peace, the method of triangulation is discussed as a popular way the narcissist maintains control over your emotions. Triangulation consists of bringing the presence of another person into the dynamic of the relationship, whether it be an ex-lover, a current mistress, a relative, or a complete stranger.
 
This triangulation can take place over social media, in person, or even through the narcissist’s own verbal accounts of the other woman or man. The narcissist relies on jealousy as a powerful emotion that can cause you to compete for his or her affections, so provocative statements like “I wish you’d be more like her,” or “He wants me back into his life, I don’t know what to do” are designed to trigger the abuse victim into competing and feeling insecure about his or her position in the narcissist’s life.
 
Unlike healthy relationships where jealousy is communicated and dealt with in a productive manner, the narcissist will belittle your feelings and continue inappropriate flirtations and affairs without a second thought. Triangulation is the way the narcissist maintains control and keeps you in check — you’re so busy competing for his or her attention that you’re less likely to be focusing on the red flags within the relationship or looking for ways to get out of the relationship.
 
5. The False Self and the True Self
The narcissist hides behind the armor of a “false self,” a construct of qualities and traits that he or she usually presents to the outside world to gain admiration and attention. Due to this armor, you are unlikely to comprehend the full extent of a narcissist’s inhumanity and lack of empathy until you are in the discard phase. This can make it difficult to pinpoint who the narcissistic abuser truly is – the sweet, charming and seemingly remorseful person that appears shortly after the abuse, or the abusive partner who ridicules, invalidates and belittles you on a daily basis
 
You suffer a great deal of cognitive dissonance trying to reconcile the illusion the narcissist first presented to you with the tormenting behaviors he or she subjects you to. In order to cope with this cognitive dissonance, you might blame yourself for his or her abusive behavior and attempt to “improve” yourself when you have done nothing wrong, just to uphold your belief in the narcissist’s false self during the devaluation phase.
 
During the discard phase, the narcissist reveals the true self and you get a glimpse of the abuser that was lurking within all along. You bear witness to his or her cold, callous indifference as you are discarded. This is as close you will ever get to seeing the narcissist’s true self.
 
The manipulative, conniving charm that existed in the beginning is no more — instead, it is replaced by the genuine contempt that the narcissist felt for you all along. See, narcissists don’t truly feel empathy for others – so during the discard phase, they often feel absolutely nothing for you except the excitement of having exhausted another source of supply. You were just another source of narcissistic supply, so do not fool yourself into thinking that the magical connection that existed in the beginning was in any way real. It was an illusion, much like the identity of the narcissist was an illusion.
 
It is time to pick up the pieces, go No Contact, heal, and move forward. You were not only a victim of narcissistic abuse, but a survivor. Owning this dual status as both victim and survivor permits you to own your agency after the abuse and to live the life you were meant to lead — one filled with self-care, self-love, respect, and compassion.