7 Reasons Young Men Should Avoid Relationships

Looking back on my high school experience it’s drilled into your head to get into a relationship, fall in love, get married, get a mortgage, have kids, ect. Many of my friends and old high school buddies were married with children strait out of high school or within a year of being graduated from college. They don’t even give themselves a chance to find out who they are before they are neck deep in a marriage. Here are 7 reasons why men, especially young men, should avoid relationships and marriage.
1) Establishing Your Career
The first reason you should avoid a relationship as a young man is because most women are dream killers. I have experienced this first hand many times. None have ever supported me in my career or building something real. They constantly belittle, nag, and verbally abuse taking you out of your go getter mindset. They will push you to take a career that benefits her the most. Instead of taking any chances and building up your own business or career they want you at something steady and stable where they can easily control you and your paycheck. They don’t want you becoming more successful in most cases because it threatens their comfortable position as boss and CEO of your household. Most men in their twenties are either just figuring out their career or just starting. They are in no place to start a family mentally of financially and instead of enjoying the freedom of their first big pay check they are forced to adhere to their wives demands.
2) Time Lost
I can’t even begin to add up the time I wasted on women in total. From dating and relationships to the every day arguments of living with a nagging women that will never be happy. The nights lost in my beta days wondering if she was cheating and why she couldn’t be honest. The time lost jumping through hoops to make her happy. The time lost walking on egg shells. The time lost on trying to fix it or make it better. The time wasted trying to fix these terrible relationships is endless. An endless loop of throwing your time and energy down the toilet. Imagine what you could have accomplished in that time if you weren’t in that relationship.
3) Money Lost
The scale of money lost can vary depending on your situation. Some men owe life time alimony to their ex wife. Some men owe payments for the next 18 years. Some men throw away money chasing women trying to get into relationships. Over and over, month after month, you question your motives as a young man. Wondering where your retirement has gone. Wondering why you’re living in a trailer. Wondering why your ex is living like a queen while you live like a hobbit. The amount of money wasted on drinks and dinners trying to capture the attention of a black hole.
4) Growth
When you are wrapped up in an unhealthy relationship you aren’t doing things like traveling, taking adventures, or chasing your curiosity. You aren’t chasing new ideas and concepts or trying to grow as a person. Your focus becomes the other person and their needs. You forget about yourself and your own needs leaving your personal growth stagnate. You stop learning new things, you stop trying new hobbies, you stop investing time and energy into things that interest you and instead into her. You never even attempt new ideas leaving yourself as an empty shell to provide a blanket of security for this women. Instead of reading and intellectually self reflecting alone, you’re getting nagged about growing a grass lawn or the dishes not being done. You do not even know who you are or where you are going why would you want to be tied down to a sinking ship.
5) Mental Health
Being in a bad relationship can be mentally draining. It can be financially devastating. When you’ve been through several of these as a young man you are willing to jump into marriage or a relationship with the first girl that “acts” nice. After these relationships end in disaster as well a man is left broken. Mentally he can’t understand how these women continue to treat him like a disposal utility. He can’t understand how he could love a women for 20 years only to have her take his children, home, and money after cheating on him. Mental health is left broken struggling to find any source of help in our man hating society.
6) Friendships
It’s very common for a man to ditch out on his buddies when he goes into a bad relationship. Often times buddies will try and help to no avail but the guy will dive right into a relationship. You lose those friends and you miss out on all the fun times you would have had ice fishing, hunting, or drinking a few beers by the bonfire. Friendship effects every aspect of life. When you push your friends away for a relationship you are left with no one around to talk to grounding you in reality and your left alone after the relationship. This pulls you farther into self destruction as your left alone with no one but the women that is hellbent on controlling you.
7) Future Prospects
Knowing that I will most likely continue to build wealth and wisdom as I get older my prospects get better and better. Imagine marrying your high school sweetheart or college honey and ending up middle aged with a hog of a wife that does nothing but nag and bark orders. Imagine if you had followed this advice. Imagine if you had gone your own way and built yourself up to this point in your life. Imagine the women you could get compared to the women you have. Men are constantly gaining value in the sexual marketplace. Women are on the decline after ages 18-23.
There are many more reasons why men should avoid relationships, ESPECIALLY young men. There are way to many tricks and tips employed by women to sucker you out of these aspects of life. To keep you in a state of survival, rather then growth and success. Steering clear of these leeches is critical to your development and future success in life and settling for one early will most certainly end in your demise.

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