Humility is a difficult concept to understand. Even once you understand it the principles you’ve learned can be swept under the rug in a heart beat letting your pride take the drivers seat. We’re all guilty of this on different levels and reminding yourself of where you came from will always bring you back down to reality.
No matter how monk you are, no matter how MGTOW, we were all blue pill at some point in our life. For most of us is was a large portion of our life that we were blue pill. Some men take 40 years to figure it out. Others learn more quickly from others mistakes or their own. The reality remains the same though, we were all blue pill at some time in our life. We were that poor sucker SIMP who tried to make our girl happy. Who tried to do more and more to get her approval. We were that guy.
Pride can be a dangerous weapon. It leads to poor decision making and aggressive behavior. Unfounded aggression and unrealistic conversation become the norm for someone letting their pride run their life. When someone forgets where they came from or what made them the person they are today it’s easy to go into this mode. When you forget all the mistakes and stupid things you did for a women it’s easy to repeat those mistakes while thinking you’re not.
It’s a deep cycle that lends itself to the collapse of true conversation and learning. When you’re pride is in the drivers seat it’s almost impossible to explore and learn new concepts. To put aside old belief systems that obviously don’t work. To take the time to discover what the truth is behind the system.
Most men know an awful lot about female nature, but do they know where female nature came from? Do they really understand the underlining principles of “female nature” that seems to be global and historically un-ending. All the way back to the garden it seems the serpent has used “women’s rights and feminist” to lure the women away from her role and turning her against it.
When you cast aside your pride while looking at your own past walking down the blue brick road it’s easy to bring yourself back down to earth. You don’t feel the need to attack new members of MGTOW because they aren’t the perfect example following all the laws of MGTOW. You don’t feel the need to attack new ideas and concepts presented by other MGTOW. There’s peace in your heart as you look around and realize you were just as blue pill as this guy, if not worse!
A lot of men get on their high horse and lord around their personal accomplishments as if it’s a badge of honor. It’s not. It’s pride. Step back and really look at yourself and how blue pill you were in your life. Be honest with yourself and stop putting on a masculine show, egg heading with other men that might understand things a bit better than you. Unfortunately with pride goggles on it’s hard to see anything clearly.