Many times men think they can dodge the bullet by using protection, but as we all know from the horror stories of pin holes in condoms and the birth control lies it’s safe to say abstinence is the only safe option. Wait, did I just say abstinence? Yeah dude. It’s really the only option left aside from hookers and prostitutes. Either that or the high chance of finding yourself paying child support to some entitlement government worshiping harpy.
It’s hard to even tell someone else that abstinence is the only option left when I myself hardly practice it. It’s very difficult to remain abstinent in a society where every social media platform is filled with boobs and vagina. You literally can’t even go to the #homestead or #farming tags without seeing boobs and bikinis everywhere. You click on their profile thinking they must be some sort of big time model… but no, they have less than 100k followers, often times under 15k and they have a feed filled with selfies and slutty photos. If you comment anything other than #beautiful “I love you so much” “I love your makeup” you are blocked. Either that or they want to have an internet fight with you which ends when they realize they will be hitting the wall soon, and I will be getting richer in assets and knowledge.
This obviously creates a large lust drive for any man. Being flooded with non-stop images of women, boobs, and vaginas is bound to impact even the most loyal monk. Chances are most men will fold when a cute little honey presents herself as a risk free good time. Eventually though, it will end in disaster as we all know. Here are 7 signs you are being sucked into a relationship:
1) Wondering What She Is Doing
This is a obvious sign that your attention has began shifting from important life goals, hobbies, and current events and into her needs, goals, hobbies, and current events. The minute you start questioning and wondering what she is doing as a habit you have already fallen for the trap. She is inside your head playing games and you don’t even realize it. Wondering what she is doing isn’t a sign that you care about it, rather that there is a feeling of distrust and disloyalty. That she might be doing something behind your back. Sometimes this is because the man is doing this himself, but usually it is a sign that she has began her effort. The hook is set and there’s nothing left for her to do but start reeling you in.
2) I’m Sorry I Didn’t Respond I Was Busy
This is a manipulative trick many women use. It sets them up to be chased. When they say this to you, even when you are not awaiting their response, it sets up this game. Most of the time men are not sitting by the phone waiting for a women to call. Often times they reply to a message when it’s convenient. When working online or from home sometimes it’s a bit easier verse working on a roof but usually the response comes when a moment of time offers itself. Women however take this as an opportunity to begin their manipulation. They plant this seed that you are in fact waiting for them and their response. Like you are angry that they did not respond earlier and feel the need to apologize each time. Obviously you say, “no big deal” “no worries” and think nothing of it. Little did you know she was slowly setting you up for the trap.
3) Changing Small Habits
You find yourself in situations where you start saying things to appease her. Instead of being yourself, you start saying things that belittle yourself into the image she wants. Often times you don’t realize it until it’s too late, as you’ve whittled yourself down to the last bit of wood. These women use validation as cookies to push you in the direction they want, whether that be a baby or relationship. Or both. They have an agenda. The second you catch yourself saying something that contradicts the truth to appease her delusion you are in fact, being sucked into a black hole.
4) Playing Games
This one can be very dangerous if you don’t see what’s happening before hand. Often times a man will find himself in the situation where he realizes he is being ignored to cause him to chase, that he will do certain things to pass her shit test, ect. At this point some men decide to start playing games back. This is another indicator you are being roped into an unhealthy relationship. She is using emotion to over power your logic and beat you over the head with it. You can’t beat a pig at wrestling in the mud because they love it. No matter how good you think you’re doing they will maintain their manipulation with a smile.
5) Special Time for Conversation
Some women use basic means to rope in their victim. Using sex is usually the easiest way to manipulate a man and most simple women do exactly that. A man can easily get sucked into a relationship with a girl like this because often times they are somewhat chill and fun to be around. The reality is though you’re just another unicorn on the cock carousel. Once she’s bored she will be on to the next victim. One way to thwart this scenario is to understand your own thinking. When you start wanting to create time for conversation and activities rather than sex you know she has taken you from sex friend to boyfriend. She turned a purely sexual relationship into a real one.
6) Giving in to Date Demands
Many times men will be given “advice” on where to go for the date or some super special romantic picnic thing with wine under the stars. If you ever find yourself with a bottle of wine sitting under the stars with what was a booty call, rest assured you have been sucked into a relationship. If you have began jumping through these hoops know you will be on the court the rest of your life. Jump shot after jump shot, layup after layup. The demands will never end, but your life sure will.
7) Dismissing Red Flags
You’ve been through enough relationships to know the red flags. You have seen it first hand and dealt with it personally. Many times these red flags are over looked for a booty call or sex buddy because it doesn’t matter. You are just there for sex and the fact that she is a slut online or at college parties doesn’t matter to you. She lies about where she is, what’s she is doing, ect. but you don’t care because you just want sex. The minute you start dismissing these red flags and continue the relationship she will use one of the other baits to hook you, and reel you in. The second you catch yourself dismissing any red flags know you are on the brink of collapse.
Seeing the signs before it’s too late can save you an ample amount of time and energy in the long wrong. The reality is you can’t fix these women and most of them don’t want to be fixed. They treat those that care like dirty rocks, and those that don’t care like kings. They wonder why they are miserable deep down, they wonder why they don’t feel good after riding another cock, they wonder how they are single at 40 with 5 cats and kids to match. They wonder why they can’t find a good man. They wonder, they wonder, they wonder. They push away anyone that tries to help or they use captain save a hoe until his ship sinks like the titanic. That’s when they hop ship and start searching for a new boat to climb aboard.
These women do not look at men as human beings but rather disposable utilities for their use. The reason these relationships are dangerous is because they are not in fact relationships. They are the castration of the modern man and cuckation of his very soul and mind. The ability to be free, dominant, and powerful is the essence of every man. Every man has the ability to be a leader, a role model, and a teacher. Modern women rob of us that and they will use any means necessary to do so. Watch your backs gentlemen and always remember these 7 signs you are being sucked into a relationship.